Letter to my Best
Friend
Sidney Singleton
Queens, New York - Accounting
We’ve come from fresh faced, bright-eyed youngsters, innocent of all
worldly things. We’ve played together, happy as small kittens with a
tangled ball of yarn. We’ve fought like two snakes, with venom in our
bite but despite our few feuds, we’ve always come back together, letting
the bad feelings float away with the passing breeze. I can’t begin to
tell you the number of good memories that are painted in my mind.
They’re like a mosaic, when they’re all put together they show why we
are so close, so loving, and why our bond can never be broken.
We’ve helped each other when it
seemed like the sun refused to shine, when our parents badgered us, when
our siblings annoyed us, when our school load became too heavy, when
things just weren’t going our way, we could come to the other and feel
comforted. Whenever we consoled each other we would leave with our souls
freshly renewed.
As we got older, the truths of the
world began to show their ugly faces. We realized that others do not
have the same good intentions for us as we have for each other. We’ve
been hurt, betrayed, and broken down. Our problems became more difficult
to solve. Although we couldn’t always provide each other with an answer
to our problems, we provided each other with love, and that was enough.
We’ve helped each other get through
our first loves. We shared each other’s pain during our first
heartbreaks. We wiped the tears that fell freely despite our attempts to
be strong. We picked up the pieces of the other’s broken heart and tried
to put them back together.
We’ve been each other’s shadow for
eighteen years, always just ahead or just behind the other. Coming to
school and being away from you feels like a part of me has been left
behind. We chose to walk separate paths to attain the same goals. I left
what was familiar to me, to come to a new place in preparation for a
better life. You bore your first child, and gave me a godson who has
taken his spot as the apple of my eye. I’m so proud of your sacrifice to
become responsible for a new gift to the world while also furthering
your education in college.
I love you as I love myself. You are
a part of me in every way. You know me better than anyone I could
imagine. You can predict my actions before they’re carried out. I want
to let you know that I will always be in your corner, giving support,
encouragement, and guidance. When we become two old graying women we
will still be like “two peas in a pod.”
I love you, I miss you, you are my best friend and nothing can ever come
between us.